If your a girl and you have sex with a girl or vis versa

[Greg12]

Do you think it counts as loosing your virginity in the non-literal sense of the world?

I was debating with my friend because I said i was 18 and hadn't done neything with girls or dated and she said "I haven't had any boyfriends or done anything"

and I said

"but you have a girlfriend and do stuff with her"

and she said

"that doesn't count"

I said

"It does"

[Capmaster]

Of course it does. "Virginity" means not having had sexual relations yet. It doesn't matter if it's muff-diving or riding the bald avenger. It's still sex

[pacmania_2001]

Didn't they have this debate in the Kevin Smith film Chasing Amy?

[rallynavvie]

Didn't they have this debate in the Kevin Smith film Chasing Amy?

Quite. One of his best too.

And it is odd to have a girlfriend tell you she kinda likes another girl sexually because you can't be sure how to proceed. You can be brave and ask to be a part of it and hope she doesn't get mad, or it means you just lost your girlfriend to another girl, or perhaps she's just curious and needs someone there to support her. A better poll would be what would you do in the situation. I chose to support her, with the hopes of having a go with option one later of course

As for this poll I have to say virginity is bollocks. There are so many different ways to describe what it means. Maybe in this day and age we need to describe virginity as being a virgin with a man or a virgin with a woman, like two versions of it or something. Interesting topic though.

[Phantom Of The Opera]

(wagging finger at the camera) "I did not have sexual relations with that woman!".

[flaninacupboard]

For a woman, once your vagina has been penetrated by a penis or your girlfriends strap-on, you are no longer a virgin.

For a man, once you have penetrated a vagina or an anus with your penis, you're no longer a virgin.

[offline]

Don't believe I typed that one -edit-

[pyrate83]

Of course it does. "Virginity" means not having had sexual relations yet. It doesn't matter if it's muff-diving or riding the bald avenger. It's still sex

That was soooo well put Capmaster.

[pyrate83]

By the way Capmaster, has anyone ever suggested the nickname Catmaster to go with your avatar?

[Greg12]

she's not my gf

[Ripper2860]

If the Hymen is not broken -- technically she is still a virgin.


I've always wanted to use the word Hymen in a sentence !!

[northcat_8]

Of course it does. "Virginity" means not having had sexual relations yet. It doesn't matter if it's muff-diving or riding the bald avenger. It's still sex

President Clinton says that eatin ain't cheatin...I say, hell yea, I agree!!!

[stiltman]

If the Hymen is not broken -- technically she is still a virgin.
I've always wanted to use the word Hymen in a sentence !!

Technicaly correct for someone living on borrowed time

The only problem is, they break the skin soon as the us a tampon

[handyguy]

I knew a woman (not a girl) who had 3 kids, still had her hymen. they stretch you know?

"For a woman, once your vagina has been penetrated by a penis or your girlfriends strap-on, you are no longer a virgin. "

Lol, what about boys who are born vaginally? Their penis has been in the vagina before birth. Thus, with your logic, men are not born virgins.

[Cobra]

flaninacupboard means intercourse.

[flaninacupboard]

I knew a woman (not a girl) who had 3 kids, still had her hymen. they stretch you know?

"For a woman, once your vagina has been penetrated by a penis or your girlfriends strap-on, you are no longer a virgin. "

Lol, what about boys who are born vaginally? Their penis has been in the vagina before birth. Thus, with your logic, men are not born virgins.

Are babies born hard?

[Capmaster]

By the way Capmaster, has anyone ever suggested the nickname Catmaster to go with your avatar?

No. I had the name before I picked that avatar I've had about 8 avatars so far

[Doramius]

Virgin (just as Cap said) means no sexual relations. If you're a man and had your a** f**ked, you are not a virgin. If you are a woman and sucked a horse ****, you are not a virgin. If you are a nun and you found excitement playing with your forbidden zone, you are not a virgin. A man who eats muff, is not a virgin. A woman that breaks her hymen because she inserted a tampon or went to a gynacologist is NOT a virgin. No sexual relation has been made. If a man washes his schlong, wether erect or not (this does not mean stroking it), he is still a virgin. If he gets pleasure grabbing himself and causes orgasm, he's no longer a virgin. Very simple. If it's sexual, you're not a virgin. It doesn't matter if you spooge while in her ear canal.