OK I am a little inibriated

[beavereater]

This is the only place I can say anything without anyone knowing the possibilities I had witthout either criticizing me for my lack of goodness or my lack of manlyness. Long story short:

My friend broke up with his girl of 3 years (Not much of a Bazooka like situation but...) We went drinking. He invited 2 coworkers, they were hot. They worked in the cosmetics section of a big department store. BIG DEAL in Japan...you gotta be a looker. Anyway...it's 4am and the 4 of us are ready to "leave"...I give my friend the chance to leave with his girl completely ignoring the fact that the other "beaver" is all over me...then when it comes time to get into the cab, I shove the 3 of them into ONE cab going south...while I get ready to take a cab north to my place where my GF is sleeping.

I COULD HAVE gotten away with it...but I didn't...is this love...or stupidity!! I will have to show pics of the evening when I get the chance. I am at home writing this, when at this VERY MOMENT I could be shagging...I hope my gf wakes up early, and...well...in the mood!!

P.S I played it single...so as not to make it difficult on my friend to get along with the girl. If they knew I was taken, the other girl would have been pre-occupied with keeping her friend happy....

[Tommyknocker]

That's like running for a bus after you already caught one.

[SLICK RICK]

That would be love beav, not stupidity.

[beavereater]

That would be love beav, not stupidity.

I hope so...cuz right now I am hurtin'...then again...that could be the beer. I don't know...I'm just glad I have a safe place to vent!!

[Tommyknocker]

You did the right thing. If you really want to screw up your life royally, realize how awful life can be without your girlfriend, then the next time the opportunity presents itself, take the southbound cab. Boy will you regret it. Especially if your girlfriend did nothing to deserve that kind of treatment.

[beavereater]

She is a great girl...but its like a kid saying no to candy because he knows he will get desert after dinner at home. Anyway, I am sure I will be happy I didn't tomorrow

[Capmaster]

Nice going Beave Don't ever feel guilty or regretful about doing the right thing. It's hard, but you called it right. Your GF is a lucky girl, my friend, and I have more respect for you now

[ViRaL1]

Also, remember that not everybody gets away clean. The two of you could run into the other girl, your buddy could rat you out etc. But even if you'd never get caught, you still made the right choice.

[freak_in_cage_10k]

lets see some pics of these 2 fit girls! that way we can judge your willpower of not cheating, plus we can perve a little!

[Capmaster]

Getting away with it and having a clear conscience are two different things. The anguish you'd feel would be far worse than the short-term pleasure in tearing off a nice piece of ass. That fades very quickly.

It's even more of a temptation, and more of a guilt thing when you're married. The stakes are higher, but the temptation is still there ...more so because any problems you might be having with the wife can be used to rationalize your acts. What you're really made of comes through when you're offered the greatest prize.

Since I've been married, I have been flirted with off and on. Ego boost ...oh haillll yes! But would it happen? .....oh haillll no!!!

They were all seemingly low-risk ....and very pretty women. But you know what ....it's so not worth it.

While the immediate reaction of mine is a big ego stroke, as it would be for any guy, and a very good feeling ....it's very nice to know you've "still got it" ...I declined to pursue it. Every time. And I can look in the mirror and see a faithful husband there.

I will not go there, and do that to the mother of my children. I worship my wife and she's the greatest thing that has ever happened to me. I am a faithful husband who took, and continues to take his marriage vows seriously. Really ...in spite of my fictional posts here

So ...beave .....you will walk a little taller, and your chest will puff out a bit more from now on .....you can be proud of your restraint. It will be clearer after you sober up

[stiltman]

And if you did do anything, would you post it her with the Mrs. reading, OH HELL NO!

[Ripper2860]

Good move, as it is something you would most likely regret later -- even though you are regretting passing it up now !!

[Capmaster]

No ...you turn it down and leave it at that. However, if something had happened, my conscience wouldn't let me keep it a secret for long ...I would confess. I know me well enough. But there's a huge difference between a flirt that's spurned, and an actual affair.

[beavereater]

Well...having spent the day with a hangover, I was happy nothing happened. Phew...I would have regreted it, and I would have felt guilty as shit. I'm not a good liar either...phewwww!!

[Capmaster]

8) 8) 8) Way to go Beave

[ViRaL1]

What's this 'conscience' you speak of? How does it work? "?

[Craig Tucker]

I bet your mate was well chuffed anyway. Nice little threesome .

[freak_in_cage_10k]

do you have a pic of these fit girls, that way we can judge just how impressive your restrain is!

[northcat_8]

what is this "concious" thing you speak of Capmaster? I am intrigued...

You did the right thing Beave, just the fact that while this other chick was all over you, you were thinking about your GF sleeping peacefully at home, should tell you that you did what you thought you should.

Now all of this is dependant on how hot the chick was...but the one you have is pretty hot, you better keep her...we've seen your picture....you're lucky. Matter of fact I still say she had to lose a bet :P

Also it has been argued that from the male perspective "love and stupidity" are the samething. And for you neh-sayers...how many stupid things have you done for the girl, but scored it as love? Come on now...think back...

[beavereater]

do you have a pic of these fit girls, that way we can judge just how impressive your restrain is!

I had a disposable camera that night, but one of the ladies has it now. I've been invited to a bigger party (Which they will be attending) and get some pics with my digital cam. That's Wednesday...

As for what happen after I left that night (I had a chat today with my friend, today)...things got a little bizzar. Apparently the lady my friend was with went home, and he got it on with the other one. Oh well...AND when I say they are lookers, well...I may have been wearing beer goggles at the time cause right now I'm having a hard time picturing either of them. If you were single though you wouldn't turn them down...that much I remember...expect updates on Wednesday if you are still interested...

[freak_in_cage_10k]

do you have a pic of these fit girls, that way we can judge just how impressive your restrain is!

I had a disposable camera that night, but one of the ladies has it now. I've been invited to a bigger party (Which they will be attending) and get some pics with my digital cam. That's Wednesday...

As for what happen after I left that night (I had a chat today with my friend, today)...things got a little bizzar. Apparently the lady my friend was with went home, and he got it on with the other one. Oh well...AND when I say they are lookers, well...I may have been wearing beer goggles at the time cause right now I'm having a hard time picturing either of them. If you were single though you wouldn't turn them down...that much I remember...expect updates on Wednesday if you are still interested...

cool dude, im sure their fit!

[Craig Tucker]

Hey freak, where you been man.

[freak_in_cage_10k]

Hey freak, where you been man.

alright m8

been busy dude, final year of uni so i dont get on much n e more , plus i dont have the net in my room so i can only check when im on the Uni pcs.

u ok m8?

[Craig Tucker]

Yea Im good, Also been busy at work and moving house, so have not been here as much as I used to be. Things have eased up a bit now though for the time being. Final year eh, that means you actually have to start doing some work now then

Come on then beave, wheres the pics