Well, not exactly solved, but circumvented, much easier.

I remixed my movies and made output AVI for best quality. Then using TMPG, made it into SVCD format which came out great.

Took SVCD and my daughter has an APEX- 500W which we bought her for 70 BUCKS at XMAS, plays EVERYTHING. Hooked to VCR, dubbed over and quality is EXCELLENT.

Well, my PC owned a VCR, now it owns a DVD player (standalone) also...LOL. Hey, its for my business and I was not going to settle for crappy quality !

Thanks to all who have been helping !