MVKmerge/FFMPEG Command Line to Copy Subtitles but in disabled mode?

[kwanbis]

I have two MKV files, I want to copy the video from file1 plus the audio from file2 plus the subtitles of file2 to file3.

So:
File 1: Video
+
File 2: Audio, Sutbitles
= File3

Since this is 500 files, I want to do it with the command line, so I have:

mkvmerge.exe --output "file3.mkv" --no-audio --no-subtitles "file1.mkv" --no-video "file2.mkv"

The problem is that the first subtitle is enabled. I want to copy all subs, but disable them by default. Additional, the other problem is that not all subs have the same track ID.

Is it possible? I rather use mkvmerge, but I am also open to ffmpeg. It is important that there is no re-enconding.

Thanks!